Here’s how I first discovered I was addicted to my business…
In my third year of business during the Fall, it was 3am in the morning and I suddenly woke up. I sat up straight and said, “OMG, I forgot to send out an email to the training coordinator for a presentation I’m presenting next week!” I proceeded to get out of bed, went into my home office, logged on, and sent out a very professional email. After I clicked send I was so proud of myself. I thought, “I’m so dedicated, my million is just around the corner.” And of course, I had a huge smile on my face.
Anyway, I went back to bed and the next morning my husband looked over at me and said, “you know you’re addicted don’t you?” I said addicted to what. He leaned over and looked me straight in the eye with his nose pressed against mine and said in a very light yet stern tone, “You’re Addicted to Your Business!”
I said, “Really, I’m so excited! I wonder if there are other people like me!” and I realized what I had and it was ok as long as I managed it.
After a lot of work, I have a HEALTHY addiction to my business. I’ve learned how to manage my addiction and after some research; I found that some addictions are healthy for us if managed.
Sometimes you feel so alone as an entrepreneur and wonder if other people are experiencing the same ups and downs, highs and lows, successes and failures, and many other things I could mention.
Is your quest for business ownership a catalyst for freedom (money, lifestyle, do what you want to do, live on your terms), or a costly (family, time, money, sanity, disconnection, health) addiction that creates the illusion that you’re free?
Entrepreneurship can be a catalyst or it can be an addiction that perpetuates dreams, hopes, and what if’s. The critical difference hinges on your ability to go through a strategic process of discovery, exploration, excavation, sorting, cutting, and polishing.
All you need to do, to not only realize and admit you have Small Business Addiction but to also manage (not get rid of), your Small Business Addiction, is to ask for the RIGHT help.
It is no secret that addiction is a very serious problem that can lead to detrimental consequences for the person addicted and the people that are affected by their addiction.
On the other hand, there are addictions that can be healthy and worthwhile if managed.
One of them is Small Business Addiction.
As an entrepreneur who owns a business, if I didn’t have a small dose of addiction to my business, I wouldn’t be able to do the work necessary and have the mindset needed to get off dream street and on to passion road. Conceptualizing, organizing, starting, building, growing, sustaining, and maintaining a business is hard work and if you’re not willing to get inside of yourself and deal with everything – you’re going to perpetuate the strong desire (your small business addiction) for freedom and never realize the freedom you’re seeking.
There are many resources and help for clinical addictions but for business owners I couldn’t find much help so I decided to define it and offer strategic help. Our support and mentoring resources were created to provide the strategic support you need to do what you need to do.
Realizing that you may be addicted to your business to the point where “you’re robbing from your strategy, to feed your dream,” instead of “fueling your passion with cash, income, profits, and ultimately wealth,” is very liberating! Now you can do something about it.
If you find yourself thinking, eating, and sleeping with your business on your brain then you’ve come to the right place. Let’s begin your business therapy with a quiz to see if you’re addicted to your business!
Are You Addicted to Your Business Quiz
- Do you consider vacation the perfect time to get caught up on work?
- Do you eat, drink, and sleep with your business on the brain?
- Have you made excuses for working on your business in place of engaging in fun time with family or friends because you just have to finish whatever it is you’re working on?
- Do you regularly exceed the expectations of the goals you set for your business?
- Do you regularly miss the goals you set for your business and have to change the date, time or other aspects of your goals?
- Are some of your closest friends entrepreneurs?
- Do you get along better with people who are entrepreneurs?
- Is your business your best friend?
- Have you ever woken up in the middle of the night to write down something you know you want to remember for your business?
- When working, have you forgotten to eat breakfast, lunch, and/or dinner?
- When working, had your butt become numb because you haven’t gotten up from your desk for over five hours.
- Do you get offended when people offer advice to you about your business because you know what you need to do and what they’re advising is stuff you already know about?
Small Business Addiction Quiz Scoring:
A. If you answered “yes” to 3 or less of the above, you may have a slight case of Small Business Addiction. Confess your business addiction story in the comments below and ask questions so you can manage a healthy small business addiction.
B. If you answered “yes” to 5 or less of the above, you are very likely to have Small Business Addiction. Take the actions in “A” above and then check out our strategic development program. The action items will help you manage your Small Business Addiction to a healthy level by talking through your ideas and having someone you can trust holding you accountable for your business activities.
C. If you answered “yes” to 9 or more of the above, your Small Business Addiction may require an ongoing support plan in the form of entrepreneurial education. Take the actions in “A” and “B” above first. Both can help you immediately. The next step would be to schedule your business introduction to see if our strategic one-on-one advising is what you need to manage a healthy addiction to your business.
Disclaimer: We are not downplaying those who have serious addictions that need help from a licensed professional. Myself nor my company, Effició Inc. are licensed professionals who can diagnose series clinical additions nor anyone affiliated with Effició Inc. This is for entertainment purposes only and if you feel you have a serious addiction, please consult a licensed professional for help. By reading this article, participating in this quiz you hold Effició, Inc. Sherese Duncan and all affiliated brands harmless from any liability or responsibility for any actions you take as a result of anything shared within this web site, article, or podcast. You can see our full disclaimer here.
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